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This one’s gonna seem odd considering everything I’ve said so far but it’s still true so here goes. Basically you need to realise that some girls are simply more confident than others and that even though some will have the courage to touch or tease you to get your attention, some will just freeze up like an Eskimo’s ball sack when they’re in your presence. Let’s say you’re in a group of friends and one of them is a girl you don’t know and who isn’t interacting with you in the slightest. Let’s say she won’t look at you, or talk to you at all, and when you ask her questions she responds to someone else instead of to you.
Blame a lot of it on science, but girls are much more likely to laugh at everything you say when they feel relaxed, comfortable, or infatuated by a guy. Of course, we don’t mean she has to laugh at every single conversation the two of you have. There should always be room for more serious, straightforward conversations, too.
It’s a normal part of life, and it has nothing to do with your value as a person or your self-esteem! But dating—or flirting, or talking, or whatever the kids call it these days — can be a lot easier once you learn how to pick up on people’s social cues. By social cues, I mean the subtle signs, like body language and conversational patterns, that can help let you know how someone else is feeling. Of course, if she is initiating touch with you, that’s a fantastic sign. It’s common knowledge that people touch who they like.
This is probably the most important thing on the list. It is incredibly juvenile to assume that because a girl does one of these things once or twice that she is automatically in love with you.
And what if you think about her for all summer, but then in the fall, it turns out she was never interested in you? Better to know now.
- But dating—or flirting, or talking, or whatever the kids call it these days — can be a lot easier once you learn how to pick up on people’s social cues.
- Does she always go to you for help even if she could do something on her own?
29. Laughs at all your jokes, even the stupid ones
When a girl likes you, she may tease you lightly about certain things you do or say. Ways of teasing include calling you out on a joke that actually wasn’t that funny, poking fun at something you’re wearing, or lightly telling you that you’re trying too hard.
Going out in large grounds of friends can be fun. If you notice that your female friend would rather hang out with you rather than with a large group, then pay attention! She’s not doing this because her other friends bore her.
Similarly, if she breaks plans with you more than once in a short span of time, that’s a sign she’s not interested. Keeping plans with you might not seem like that big of a deal — for many people, that can seem like basic courtesy — but a girl who keeps plans usually likes the person she’ll be seeing. If she doesn’t, she’d find a reason to cancel or else just totally flake on you, a universal sign that she’s just not that interested.
It is a sign that she trusts the person. So, if a girl starts opening up to you, then you need to consider the possibility that she might like you a lot.
If a woman is into a guy, she wants to appear compatible. She wants him to see that they share interests, hobbies, and tastes. This is all demonstrated in hopes of getting him to ask her out. So the next time you are chatting to a girl and one of these things happens, consider it a green light.